Social Resources

We just talked about the problem of a person's social resources, often spoke about the fate of some students say fate is determined. Fate will be? Part is fixed. I just said, what family you were born, grow into what it was like, these are given. In addition, the other is variable. Therefore, we should fully concerned about the fate of the variable rather than concern laid down to fate. What is a variable? We divided into two kinds of luck: luck called accidental, called inevitable. If a person seeking occasional luck, life often will be more tragic; However, a person seeking an inevitable luck, life often seemed more brilliant. What is the chance of luck? Sit back and wait the story we all know, farmers see a rabbit hit the stumps, he was glad to pick it up, he inferred result is that every day should have a rabbit hit the stump. So he began to not work, waiting for a rabbit to hit. A lifetime, stumps and other rotten, first-class white, but the rabbit still did not come. He fortuitous luck as inevitable luck. What is inevitable luck? If the farmer animals infer this place, on the positive themselves into a hunter, he may never do not only hit the rabbit, there are likely to hit Tiger. We all know that proactive and passive survival worlds apart. A person may suffer the fate can not be changed, but the level of life can be changed. How do I later would stand to this place? Through the efforts of their own lifetime, failure does not give up, once a setback does not give up.

I often like to tell two stories bring life changes, changes in the human heart. A Kaozhuang Yuan, the road, an old monk asked him what to do, he said Kaozhuang Yuan. The old monk looked at his face, that you do not go to the test, your life will not be the champion of life, you still honestly go back. But has come to semi-Road, and he was not willing to continue to go forward. Came to a river, suddenly found a man fell into the water, he jumped into the river to rescue this person, wet clothes, he did not and ran back to the temple. Old monk saw this when he says, strange, and you go out for two hours and then come back, your life changed. You seem to face already has admitted to the champion's face. Because the listeners to the good side. That this man is very selfish, this moment of Health kindness people rescued, so life has changed. Like a series out of the story, but I believe that, what is the reason? Changed your heart, and your world will change, so change your fate. I think the effort to add the aspirations and objectives of the hard work and the right, is the only road for us into the future.

The college, in the end, what things should be done? The first thing is to study hard. Conscientiously study conscientiously study at the University of the secondary school is not the same, universities expand their vision, to extend their life learning. I say learning is to attach importance to the expertise of the University, and I do not learn English at Peking University, how can I might do today's New Oriental, professional knowledge is very important. Professional if you do not like, you like to learn a profession. Do you like a professional is not really like to go through repeated pondering. American University the previous two years and will not let you choose a professional, is to let you two years to cultivate an interest. Friends remember, if you do not like professional life, this is the sad thing. So, be sure to find their favorite professional. If the professionals can not replace, to find a second professional school; University allows you to change your major, you have to make it clear and back. The most important knowledge to learn, you can learn two professional fight in college.

We did research at the university, changed his professional students should be like 100% professional, this should be a normal inference. However, some students who changed professional professional of their choice, or do not like that some students change a reckless professional behavior without serious thinking. In addition to professional, spare time also read a lot of books, you should read a book every two days or so. Almost 800 books I read in college, I was able to finish reading, you will be able to finish reading. Some students say, read the book forgot how to do? You have to remember, forget read and not read the two concepts. You see the students around to reading the book, you have not read these books, you heart immediately produce a feeling of fear. So reading not only for wisdom, reading is not only to the expansion of knowledge, reading there to lay the foundation of confidence. If I do not have to build reading self-confidence at Peking University, I have no confidence out dry New Oriental. So reading is to lay the foundation of self-confidence.

Secondary activities should expand the university to do the second thing is over. The most important thing in life is to get ahead of others, it is very important to be able to participate in a variety of activities at the university when I discovered that there is a big difference than inactive students active students in the University's future development. We want to make more friends in college, friends remember, when you have to deal with a more powerful person you progress faster. I learned to read from Wang Qiang teacher there, he entered the University took their living books into two, half and half when the cost of living, so he bought a lot of books every month. I learn from him what books he bought what books I bought. We remember, as much as possible to pay a good make friends in college.