Forget it

Recently, four girlfriends romance, have to talk to me, and I was able to experience the love has withered specimens.

Sadly not love must end, but love is sometimes the end is so unbearable.

Do not let us continue with wound injuries I have romance, I state often: romance, upcoming lovelorn, the treatment of romance ... chronic illness into health, I gradually worked out a few experience, or a few scars. Do not recall the sweet memories, because only make yourself more pain. Do not compare to break up before and after his attitude does not make sense. Do not doubt his decision, because he has already decided. Do not try to restore, not worth to restore. Do not forgive his impulsive, even impulsive, a person must be responsible for their own impulses. Do not worry you miss him will be the most horrible thing in your life, and he is not afraid to miss you, what are you afraid of? Do not be afraid that you're about to fall into a loveless life, because that is impossible.

Do not be an abandoned hugely magnified his value greatly exaggerate your love, it is just an illusion, because your pain has become one amplifier. Not from sorrow to self-pity, if you believe you have been insulted, to be angry, because anger has the power, and the pity.

Do not let us continue with wound injuries humiliated the best method not hide his face, whining cry, but angrily throw back: "Hey, you think you are?" Cruel Shi with your man If you look at the inviolability of less than a person's dignity, he did not see anything.

Forget it, my dear friend. Forget those who bear the forget those ugly thing.

You know, forget things and never perceived almost equal never happened. Remember then. Remember that even if we try to go forgotten, but still like the sun debris falling thin, still let us feel the warmth of the stuff. I have always believed, those things are still precious and unique gift.

Do not let us take the wound continues to be injured in my opinion, lovelorn four stages: the first stage do not believe, can not accept this fact. Will find a variety of evidence to prove that love still exists, Although you Pafu to the ground, eventually grasping the full of the shed are old love shell. The second stage is anger, slander, so try to hate that person over and over all of his old and today you love the quality. The third stage is to restore, begging you down, self-esteem takes the plunge, you find more than the pain of losing his dignity you firmly guardian you luck, and full of hope. The fourth stage is you cynical, dismissive of the beliefs of the past love, you are actively looking for alternatives, eager to want to fall in love with a stranger to prove himself cured. Then ...... calm down and continue to live, and then fell in love with the next person.

A friend asked me, what wisdom can skip these stages? I thought for a moment and said no. However, falling out of love so many times, I will skip the third stage, can be considered progress bar.